RESOLVING IMAGES - A TOOL FROM THE PATHWORK GUIDE LECTURES*
Some Steps for Resolving Images:
1. Become aware of the issues and problems: over several weeks make a list of the reoccurring frustrations, disappointments, painful situations that occur in your life. See if you can find some common denominators which might has a basis in an Image .
2. Identify Images:
- Put into concise words the misconceptions on which the images rest
- Make connections between the emotional defenses that support the misconceptions ie. some variation of withdrawal, aggression, submission.
- Identify the unmet needs of the child
3. Connect the image to childhood hurts and to present life situations/dynamics/ consequences. Make connections between the "then" and the "now".
4. Understand the damage Images do:
- Create fear, shame and separateness
- Keep pain and disappointment hidden, so it can not be worked through
- Keep us stuck in childish mindset and childish dualities where "my way" is good and pleasurable and thwarting of my will produces hate, rage, pain.
- Prevents us from receiving Divine support
- Unconscious mindsets block our conscious desire for fulfillment.
5. Strip current problem to get to basic issue - lack of love
- Find blame of others
- Feel anger/frustration/ anxiety
- Eventually find the hurt of not being loved
- Connect present and past hurt
6. Dissolve images:
- Articulate a true concept ie. what is the truth in this situation and regarding misconceptions held in the image
- Hold the true concept next to the misconception
- Choose truth and impress your soul substance
7. Resolve childhood hurt:
- Hold past and present painful feelings together
- Fully feel and release pain - let it go
- Forgive parents, perpetrators and self
8. Create life positively:
- Meditate and visualize a positive alternative
- Allow your soul substance to be impressed
- Become love instead of demanding it
- Embrace in yourself, and give to yourself, what you needed from your parents and or childhood situation.
- Allow the grace of spirit to penetrate the places that need healing around these issues; grace that you can now receive because you have taken the self-responsibility to do the work that was yours to do on this topic.
* Material summarized from Pathwork Lectures # 38, 39, 40, 41, 92, 93, 201
* For more information and to find copies of the lectures: www.pathwork.org
Prepared by: Madeline Dietrich
December 2007.
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